I retired from my dance career about 9 years ago. I loved being a professional dancer. It is a special feeling, being able to express everything without words. I learned so much from my dance training and career: discipline, dedication, attention to detail, focus, persistence, and a strong work ethic. I’ve reflected a lot on my career and everything I’ve learned, both positive and negative. And if I could go back and talk to my younger self, this is what I would say:
It is fair to say that many or most people in the arts and entertainment world hate opportunists. Those people who cut you off in the middle a conversation if someone “more important” walks over. Those people who, while they are talking to you at an event or an audition/interview will be looking over your shoulder or around the room for someone better; someone who can further their mission.
I am probably about to sound like an annoying Dance Mom. But there are just too many mishaps that can easily be prevented in a dancer’s life. A professional dancer’s life is unfortunately not quite as long as the typical office or corporation job that may involve earning a company car or the quintessential vested/tenured position with the Rolex watch. It’s a labor of love, that includes moments of gratitude for every job landed, and every minute on the stage and in the rehearsal room.
